Wrong Things.

Is it possible that a person, guy or girl, can say the wrong things? Long-distance relationships can be so hard to do, yet it can be rewarding. I have been in one for almost two months now with my boyfriend. We've known each other for three years. For the first year, we dated for seven months then I broke up with him because we rushed into it and we haven't really gotten the chance to know each other since all our conversations started out as " <33, :), I love you, I miss you" etc and we really did not have a conversation going. The second year we went out for three months, but nothing had changed so I broke up with him. (Keep in mind, I have reasonable reasons). We lost connection until October 2010 and we went out in January until June 2011. But for some reason, I had not really had this sort of "bond" or feeling with him until I started grade 10. We were, I guess you can say, "dealing" and officially started dating as of January 2012. Love has always been a concern to me because I am only 15, yet teenagers these days often use the word "love" many times. We barely talk now because our only communication is through MSN chatting and it sucks. I am 15 years old and he is 18. I know there is an age difference but I didn't think it really mattered until he started going to college. He promised me that he would talk to me more yet he hasn't. Communication is something that I need to have because it is the only thing that we have. He is coming to move in Ontario in Summer but i do not think I can wait that long for him or guarantee that we will still be together. He wants to be with me for a long time (married in simple terms) but I don't like to think about the future and have high expectations and then be let down. I have tried talking to him and giving offline messages about how I felt because we haven't been talking for more than a week and if I give long paragraphs, I am expecting his to be as well but it comes out as "I'm sorry, I am so terrible" But it isn't what I want to hear. He tells me that he understands if I want to leave him and break up with him but that isn't the response I want. I would love it if he would fight for me and tell me why he wants me to be with him. I need him to tell me that he does not want to lose me and that he will do things to help us to talk more and keep the conversation going (it still has not since last time) but he does not tell me that. I need him to say things that will make me remember why we still go out together when we have broken up many times. I need him to give me reasons and remind me what about him makes me want to stay with him and possibly have a future together. I love it when we talk because he makes me happy. The less time we talk, the feelings for him lessen as well. Is he saying the wrong things? Or am I expecting too much for him.